Start talking.

You may not exactly know how to start a conversation about college, but don’t worry. Just remember that this isn't a do-or-die moment, but an ongoing conversation about your future — and you get to drive it. It's okay to take it slow and do it your way. By thinking ahead and preparing for some of your family’s concerns, you'll be ready to talk and you'll make a stronger case for what you want to do. However it goes, promise to do your part — and you may be surprised by what you hear.

Come ready to talk. Show that you're serious about your goals. Back up what you're saying with facts and numbers. You'll make a big impression, and chances are, you'll improve your chances. Be prepared to bear some responsibility if your family is unable to contribute, but it's vital to have their personal support along the way regardless. You're not alone, though. Just click over to our financial aid section and you'll see just how much help there is out there.

Most of all, never underestimate the power of patience — you'll gain the trust of your family and give yourself your best chance of success.